Rules

Join us as we explore the strange, slippery nature of rules: which ones actually matter, which ones are just habits disguised as truth, and why so much of modern life depends on collective agreement more than objective reality. Wander with us through speeding in Boston, jaywalking, airplane seat swaps, recycling myths, corporate theft, public transit etiquette, and the spiritual practice of becoming a little more unruly. But underneath the humor and tangents is a deeper question: what happens to us when we become too compliant? Rosa shares how rule-following can disconnect us from our own aliveness and personal power, while Aaron argues for a more conscious relationship with the systems we inhabit. Together, we invite listeners to examine the defaults they’ve inherited, question the rules that shape their lives, and reclaim the discernment to decide which ones deserve their obedience — and which ones might be begging to be broken. We love to hear from you! Email us at deleteyourdefaults@gmail.com.