Book Talk: What We Say and How We Say It Matter by Mike Anderson

Our words matter. They can regulate or dysregulate, motivate or manipulate, build trust or create resistance. In this episode, I break down Mike Anderson’s What We Say and How We Say It Matter , a book I loved for its practical examples and immediately usable teacher talk strategies. Key takeaways include: Why sarcasm can backfire with students Why “hope” is not a management strategy—and what to say instead Why threats, bribes, and “relationship-based” manipulation don’t create true motivation How shifting language toward student ownership builds autonomy and self-efficacy This is a must-read for teachers, coaches, and leaders who want to reset their language habits for stronger SEL, management, and student growth. 📚 What We Say and How We Say It Matter – Mike Anderson 👉 Let's Connect! www.bewelltolearn.com www.instagram.com/bewelltolearn