# 263 The Family Dynamic | NY Times Writer, Susan Dominus

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Yale Lecturer and New York Times writer, Susan Dominus, about her new book, 'The Family Dynamic: A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success'. The discussion delves into how family dynamics, specifically sibling interactions, play a significant role in shaping children's futures. Highlights include parental influence, the importance of family mottos, and the balance between intrinsic and extrinsic motivations. Both speakers share personal anecdotes and insights on creating environments that foster high achievement without compromising mental wellness. 00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched 00:28 Introducing Susan Dominus and Her Book 01:35 Susan's Personal Connection to the Topic 04:16 The Influence of Siblings 06:45 Parental Influence and Expectations 15:29 Outsourcing Discipline and Encouraging Independence 20:05 Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation 24:29 Final Thoughts and Parenting Insights 30:03 Conclusion and Farewell Helpful Links: Susan Dominus 'The Family Dynamic: A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success’ Book